The gr8

doctorswagger:

Tayong mga pinoy, marami tayong alam na expression. Kadalasan, ang mga ito’y may mas malalim na ibig sabihin. Eto ang mga iba sa mga pinakamadalas nating gamitin.

• “Ok Lang” = “Ganon talaga. titiisin ko na lang. wala din naman akong magawa.”
• “Masaya ako para sa inyo.” = “Sana tayo na lang.” 
• “Bye.” = “Pigilan mo ako!” (Except sa phone call)
• “Kayo pa rin ba?” = “Sana tayo naman.”
• “Nasaan ka?” = “Gusto kitang puntahan.”
• “May problema ba?” = “Nandito lang ako.”
• “Ingat ka palagi.” = “Mahalaga ka sa akin.” 
• “Marami pa namang iba jan.” = “Hello? Nandito ako.”
• “May Cellphone ka ba?” = “Pahingi ako number mo.”
• “Busy ka ba?” = “Usap naman tayu, miss na kasi kita e.”
• “Okay lang ako.” = “Ang sakit na.”
• “Single kaba?” = “Pwede ba kitang ligawan?”
• “AHH, OK.” = “Ayoko ng ginagawa mo.”
• “Ah talaga?” = “Hindi ako interesado sa kwento mo.”
• “Basta.” = “Tinatamad akong magexplain.” 
• “Still there?” = “Tagal mo magreply eh, miss na kita agad.”
• “Secret lang yung crush ko.” = “Oo, Ikaw yun.”
• “Sigi lang.” = “Kahit ayoko, wala naman akong magagawa.”
• “Ang swerte naman ng crush mo :)” = “Sana ako nalang :(”
• “Bagay kayo.” = “Mas bagay tayo.” 
• “Joke lang.” = “Totoo yun, kahit papaano.” 
• “Kumusta ka na?” = “Miss na kita.” 
• “Nevermind.” = “Ang slow mo.”
• “Kung masaya ka na, masaya narin ako.” = “mas masaya, kung naging tayo.”
• “Ang lamig, no?” = “Pwedeng yakapin mo ako?”
• “Susunod ako..” = “Manigas ka jan.”
• “Hiyang hiya naman ako sayo!” = “Ang kapal ng mukha mo.”
• “Miss na kita.” = “Sana namimiss mo rin ako.”
• “Try ko.” = “Asa ka.”

Eto ang pinakamatindi,

• “On the way na ko.” = “Nagbibihis palang ako/Hindi pa ako nakaligo.”

Totoo naman ang lahat ng ito, di ba? Actually, Pinost ko na dati ito sa twitter account kong MgaKasabihan. Alam ko, marami ang makakarelate dito. Ang tanong, Isa ka ba sa kanila?

doctorswagger:

• The people suffering from depression:

1. “Stop being so negative!”
2. “You choose to be sad”
3. “You don’t even have anything to be sad about”
4. “There are millions worse off than you, just get a grip!”

• The people struggling with self-harm:

1. “You’re just doing it for attention!”
2. “Those cuts aren’t even that bad”
3. “You don’t even have a reason to cut/burn yourself”
4. “You freak! Hide your scars, no one wants to see those disgusting things”

• The people that attempt suicide/are suicidal:

1. “You’re so sefish!”
2. “You don’t care about anyone but yourself”
3. “Don’t you realize what this would do to your Mum/Dad/Family/Friends. You need to think about other people and not just yourself”
4. “Just get over it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and just get on with life”

• The people suffering from Anorexia Nervosa:

1. “JUST EAT!”
2. “You’re just doing this to hurt others”
3. “There are children dying of starvation and you’re just choosing not to eat, that’s so selfish”
4. “If you don’t start eating you won’t —- (stay over at your friends this weekend, get your allowance, etc)

• The people suffering from Bulimia Nervosa:

1. “Ew! That is so gross!”
2. “Just stop eating too much!”
3. “I’ll take all your money off you so you can’t buy binge food”
4. “I’ll lock the bathroom door to stop you purging”

• The SURVIVORS of Rape, Sexual Abuse, Molestation and Incest:

1. “You probably asked for it/insinuated it/gave permission”
2. “You’re lying/I don’t believe you/(s)he wouldn’t do that”
3. “Just get over it already! It’s in the past!”
4. “That is so disgusting. Aren’t you ashamed? I wouldn’t tell anyone if I were you…”

• The Victims of Bullying

1. “Just stick it out. They’ll give up soon enough”
2. “Well maybe you’ve pushed them to it”
3. “Don’t stick up for yourself or tell anyone ‘cause it’ll make it worse”
4. “Who cares? They’re not even being that harsh… You’re lucky compared to some people!”

• The Victims of Domestic Abuse

1. “Maybe you did something to provoke them?”
2. “Just fight/argue back”
3. “Get out of there! You’re doing this to yourself the longer you stay there”
4. “A lot of people have it worse than you…”

• The Victims of emotional trauma/abuse

1. “Maybe you should just do as they ask, then they won’t get angry”
2. “Just ignore them”
3. “What they’re saying doesn’t matter. Stop letting it affect you”
4. “You’re just too sensitive”

• The people struggling with general/social anxiety

1. “You’re just socially awkward”
2. “Why would anyone be afraid of that?”
3. “If you don’t want to hang out with me anymore, just tell me straight! Don’t make up all this crap about being anxious”
4. “Just get over it!”

Just always remember, You may not know what will happen. You don’t care about this post, Do you? You didn’t even read it, Did you?

This.

doctorswagger:

• Kalimutan ang mga bagay na konektado sa inyong dalawa- tulad ng love, affection, crush , at ang lust. Saka mo na balikan kapag naka recover ka na ng buong buo.
• Wag mo syang iba-block sa kahit anong networking sites na magkaibigan kayo -Wag kang bitter! Karamihan sa atin ganyan ang ginagawa. Pinapakita mo lang sa kanya na talo ka kapag ganito ang ginawa mo. You need to face your fear. Ipakita mong ok ka lang kahit hindi naman talaga.
• Sumama ka sa mga close friends mo -Sa ganung paraan, makakalimutan mo siyang isipin. Sabihin mo sa kanila ang nararamdaman mo. Wag na wag mong iipunin ang lahat ng galit/bitterness sa iyong puso at baka sumabog ka .
• Wag na wag mo syang lalayuan -dahil pag nilayuan mo sya, the MORE mo syang mamimiss. Gawin mo yung ano turing mo noon sa kanya, kung paano ka makipag usap sa kanya nung di mo pa sya mahal. Pero distancia amigo!
• Kung mahal mo pa talaga sya, tell her/him what you feel -Tignan mo reaction nya. At kung Negative reaction nya, saka ka na magplano na mag-move on. Wag kang papadala sa nararamdaman mo. Ayaw na nga nya, diba? Kaya wag ka na mag-assume.
• Wag ka makikipag fling sa ibang tao -lalo na kung alam mo sa sarili mong di ka pa nakakapagmove on at gagawin mo lang syang panakip butas. At ung tao naman na un ang kailangang mag-move on.
• Wag ka magpapadepress -Di porke wala na kayo di ka kakaen dyan, naisipan mo pang magpakamatay na lang. Mali yon, dre! Ang sarap sarap mabuhay no. Dahil lang sa isang lalaki/babae mag papakamatay ka? Aba mag isip-isip ka. Ang gawin mo Magpaganda ka pa ng bonggang bongga para manghinayang siya. Wag karing makikinig sa love song wag kang mag paka-EMO.
• Wag na wag kang Gaganti -Hindi yun tamang paraan para makapag move on ka. Hayaan mo na si God ang bahala sa kanya. Tandaan mo na kapag gumanti ka pa, ikaw pa ang mapapasama. wag na wag kang gagamit ng tao makaganti lang at db nga wag ka gaganti? Hahaha. May karma naman, Di ba?

Yun lang. Kung gusto mo talagang magmove on, at handa kang gawin ang mga ito, edi madali kang makaka-move on. pero kung matigas talaga ang ulo mo at ni isa sa mga ito ay di mo kayang sundin, edi MANIGAS ka. Tangina, problema ko pa ba yun?

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it. 82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationship.

AWKWARD.

theskullcandiii:

Ten tips to boost your self esteem:

If you don’t feel good about yourself, or worry too much about how others perceive you, then you’re likely to have low self esteem. Here are some easy steps to boost your self esteem.

Acknowledge your strengths.

We are all good at something or the other. Sit down and write about all the strengths you think you have. Do not over-analyse! Next, try to do things that bring out this quality into the open. This will help hone your strengths further, and also gain outside recognition. Also, do not forget to appreciate yourself for all your strong points and talents – it goes a long way in improving your self esteem.

Do not put up with crap!

Do not put up with people who are mean to you, even those who tell you they love you. Draw clear boundaries. Tell them you don’t like to be talked to that way. Ask them to talk to you nicely, and be assertive when you do so.

Lose those negative friends.

It’s time you lose friends who are constantly bitching or putting another down. Such people are likely to do the same behind your back, and they can leave you feeling critical and judgmental of others. Instead surround yourself with loving, positive people who are supportive and kind.

Take in compliments.

Many have a difficulty in accepting compliments. There are numerous nice things people might say each day, which your mind wouldn’t have even registered. Many other times, people refuse to take a compliment saying something like “Oh, I didn’t do much.” or simply shrugging it off. From now on, when someone pays you compliment, breathe, accept it, and say thank you!

When you begin to do this, you’ll see your self esteem rise to new levels.

Do not berate yourself.

Nobody achieves anything by berating oneself. You’ve made a mistake, OK – acknowledge it. There is no need to beat yourself up for it. Even the world’s greatest have made umpteen mistakes, and continue to make them. Give yourself permission for goof ups and even those BIG mistakes. This permission can be very liberating.

Accept yourself.

Accept the good, bad and ugly sides to you, everybody has them. All of these aspects make you who you are. When there is complete acceptance of self, one experiences a feeling of centeredness within and that will naturally bring out a person brimming with self confidence and self esteem.

Here are some self acceptance exercises that experts suggest. The mirror exercise: Look really deep, and see the person that is you in the mirror with love. Experts warn that some people might find it hard to look at themselves in the mirror that way. Give it time, allow the feelings to swell up. Experience the grief, the pain and keep trying to look at yourself. Another suggestion is to start off with positive affirmations, as they are fairly easy. Keep telling yourself, “I accept myself just the way I am”. Positive affirmations are known to have a great effect.

Keep a gratitude diary.

When you focus too much on all things going wrong, it can pull you down.

Every night, before you go to bed, write down 10 things you are thankful for. Many times one goes through without recognising all that’s going right. This exercise helps you focus on all the good things in your life. Making you feel worthy.

Respect yourself.

Eat healthy and well, exercise, sleep well. When you respect yourself, you’ll notice how others too will begin to reflect that, lifting your spirits and your self esteem.

Dress smart!

Yes, clothes don’t maketh the man, but they do affect the way one feels about himself/herself. When you don’t look good, it affects the way you walk, sit and interact with people. So use this to your advantage and invest in looking good. This doesn’t mean you have to spend tonnes of money on grooming. Small things like bathing, washing your hair and wearing neat, pressed clothes can make a difference.

Smile.

You have heard the phrase: “Smile and the whole world smiles with you, frown and you frown alone.” It’s amazing what a simple smile can do to enhance a person’s appearance. It has the power to alter the mood of a place you walk into. So carry your smile with you wherever you go.

(Source: Yahoo!)

Merong mga tao na bigla bigla nalang umiiwas ng hindi mo man lang namamalayan. At ang akala mong taong hindi ka iiwan eh iniiwasan kana pala. Nakakalungkot lang isipin na sa isang iglap eh biglang hindi kana nya kinakausap, pinapakialaman o naaalala man lang.

Pero bakit nga ba umiiwas ang isang tao?

• Maaring nakikita nya na B.I (Bad Influence) ka sa kanila.
• Hinahanap ang sarili.
• Hindi nya gusto ang ugali mo.
• Nagtatampo kasi nakahanap ka na ng ibang friends.
• Napagod.
• Nagpapalambing.
• Nagseselos.
• May nagawa ka sa kanya na hindi nya nagustuhan at dinamdam nya ito.
• Natatakot siya na baka sa sobrang pagka-close nyo sa isa’t isa eh baka ma-fall sya sa’yo.

Pero after mong umiwas ano nga ba ang maaaring mangyari?

Dito nag-uumpisa kung bakit

• nagkakalabuan
• nagkakasakitan
• nagiging malamig sa isa’t isa
• nababawasan ang pinagsamahan 

at ito din ang dahilan kung bakit nagkakalimutan.

theskullcandiii:

Pataasan nalang ng pride ang nangyayari, tapos sa huli, iyakan at pataasan rin ng boses. Napakahirap magpakumbaba, pero alam nating ito rin ang makakatulong sainyong dalawa. Di bale nang tapakan ang pride mo, kesa naman mawala ang lahat ng pinagsamahan niyo. Sa mga ganitong pagsubok malalaman kung gaano kayo katatag…at kung gaano kayo kahina.

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theskullcandiii:

There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that`s the key. It`s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.

(Source: shesperfectlyhappy)

theskullcandiii:

There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that`s the key. It`s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.

(Source: shesperfectlyhappy)